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Spiritual Direction

My practice as a Spiritual Director is grounded in the ancient practice of Cura Anamarum or Care of the Soul. While current usage of the term is rooted in the Judeo-Christian tradition, the care of persons’ spiritual and emotional well-being reaches back as far as the collective memories of humans can be extended. It is the practice of helping another person awaken to the movement of the Holy in one’s life. The fruits of Spiritual Direction are a deepened awareness of and grace for one’s humanity, a sense of growing freedom and a deeper commitment to what your heart and mind hold dear in life.

Holy Listening is the foundation of all relationships between director and directee. The director invites the directee to listen deeply to his or her life, noticing and paying attention to one’s inner life. Frederick Buechner wrote about this kind of deep listening in his book Now and Then, “If I were called upon to state in a few words the essence of everything I was trying to say both as a novelist and as a preacher, it would be something like this: Listen to your life. See it for the fathomless mystery it is. In the boredom and pain of it no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it because in the last analysis all moments are key moments, and life itself is grace.”

Give yourself the gift of Spiritual Direction today. Set aside time to nuture your soul. You will find that your life is enriched. Please check the FAQ tab on the homepage for answers to questions you might be curious about. If your question is not answered there, please contact me.

 

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Our Featured Mystic

Our current featured mystic is Fr. Anthony DeMello (known to all as Tony). A Jesuit priest and psychotherapist, DeMello was the director of the Sadhana Institute of Pastoral Counseling near Poona, India, until his death in 1987. His writings appeal to a wide audience - persons of all faiths and those seeking to live life authentically and abundantly. His life's work may be summed up as follows: he aimed simply to teach people HOW TO PRAY, how to WAKE UP AND LIVE. As a culture and a people, we are in desperate need to wake up and live our lives authentically and with integrity.

"Most people, he maintained, are asleep. They need to wake up, open up their eyes, see what is real, both inside and outside of themselves. The greatest human gift is to be aware, to be in touch with oneself, one's body, mind, feelings, thoughts, sensations.

Here are some of his typical challenges: "Come home yourself!
Come back to your senses! Do you hear that bird sing?
How can you hear the song and not hear the singer?
How can you see the wave and not see the ocean?
How can you see the dance and not see the dancer?'"
~ quote from www.demello.org

Check out Fr. DeMello's writings, and be inspired to wake up to your mystery and discover your unique path.

All Paths Lead to God

"All paths lead to God." ~ Meister Eckhart

"Humans often argue, even go to war, over whose path to God is correct. But Eckhart says: Slow down. Breathe. Don't judge. You take your path, and let others take their path. They will all lead to God. What, though, carries us beyond tribalism, beyond egocentricity, which creates those competitive, restrictive "My God is better than your God" conflicts? Eckhart says "transformed knowledge." Transformed knowledge comes with meditation, with learning to let go and let be. We must do some inner work to rid ourselves of outer teaching that preach division and exclusion and competition." ~ Fr. Matthew Fox, Christian Mystics

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