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Inspiration for the Journey

An Alphabet of Inspiration for the Spiritual Journey

The following quotes are listed according to the author’s last name. I hope you find something to inspire you as you read through the words of these mystics, poets & theologians. With respect to language of gender, I have chosen to honor the context in which these authors lived, thus the language has not been changed. Please check back frequently as there is always something new to find here. Peace & joy for the journey!

A

St. Augustine of Hippo

I Came to Love You Too Late

I came to love you too late, O Beauty, so ancient and so new. Yes, I came to love you too late. What did I know? You were inside me, and I was out of my body and mind looking for you. I drove like an ugly madman against the beautiful things  and beings you made. You were inside me, but I was not inside you…You called to me, you cried to me; you broke the bowl of my deafness; you uncovered my beams and threw them at me; you rejected my blindness; you blew a fragrant wind on me, and I sucked in my breath, and wanted you; I tasted you and now I want you as I want food and water; you touched me, and I have been burning ever since to have your peace.

B

Bill Bryson

You are Amazing

Consider the fact that for 3.8 billion years, a period of time older than the Earth’s mountains and rivers and oceans, every one of your forebears on both sides has been attractive enough to find a mate, healthy enough to reproduce, and sufficiently blessed by fate and circumstances to live long enough to do so. Not one of your pertinent ancestors was squashed, devoured, drowned, starved, stuck fast, untimely wounded or otherwise deflected from its life’s quest of delivering a tiny charge of genetic material to the right partner at the right moment to perpetuate the only possible sequence of hereditary combinations that could result – eventually, astoundingly, and all too briefly – in you.

Frederick Buechner (b. 1926)

Listen to Your Life

If I were called upon to state in a few words the essence of everything I was trying to say both as a novelist and as a preacher, it would be something like this: Listen to your life. See it for the fathomless mystery it is. In the boredom and pain of it no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it because in the last analysis all moments are key moments, and life itself is grace. Now and Then

C

Jean Pierre de Caussade (b. 1675)

The Divine Will

The divine will is a deep abyss of which the present moment is the entrance. If yo plunge into this abyss, you will find it infinitely more vast than your desires.

Lucille Clifton

won’t you celebrate with me
won’t you celebrate with me
what i have shaped into
a kind of life? i had no model.
born in babylon
both nonwhite and woman
what did i see to be except myself?
i made it up
here on this bridge between
starshine and clay,
my one hand holding tight
my other hand; come celebrate
with me that everyday
something has tried to kill me
and has failed.

D

Fyodor Dostoevsky

We are a Mystery

Man is a mystery. It needs to be unravelled, and if you spend your whole life unravelling it, don’t say that you’ve wasted time. I am studying that mystery because I want to be a human being.

Don’t Lie to Yourself

Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love. The Brothers Karamazov

E

Meister Eckhart

Thank You is Enough

If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.

Learn to Know Yourself 

A human being has so many skins inside, covering the depths of the heart. We know so many things, but we don’t know ourselves! Why, thirty or forty skins or hides, as thick and hard as an ox’s or bear’s, cover the soul. Go into your own ground and learn to know yourself there.

F

St. Francis of Assisi

When You Leave This Earth

Remember that when you leave this earth you can taken nothing of what you have received, but only what you have a given: a full heart, enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice, and courage.

G

Martha Graham

Our Flaws

When weaving a blanket, an Indian woman leaves a flaw in the weaving of that blanket to let the soul out.

Margaret Guenther

Our Deepest Concerns

We all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us.

H

Hildegard of Bingen

Radiance

There is no creation that does not have radiance. Be it greenness or seed, blossom or beauty. It could not be creation without it.

Who is the Trinity?

Who is the Trinity? You are music. You are life. You are alive in everything, and yet you are unknown to us…God says: I am the supreme fire; not deadly, but rather, enkindle every spark of life.

Gerard Manley Hopkins

All Things Are Charged with Love

All things therefore are charged with love, are charged with God and if we knew how to touch them give off sparks and take fire, yield drops and flow, ring and tell of him.

I

St. Ignatius of Loyola

Action and Trust

Act as if everything depended on you; trust as if everything depended on God.

J

Julian of Norwich

Falling and Rising Again

If there is anywhere on earth a lover of God who is always kept safe, I know nothing of it, for it was not shown to me. But this was shown: that in falling and rising again we are always kept in that same precious love

K

Sue Monk Kidd

A Season of Waiting

I stood at the window watching the cocoon, which hung in the winter air like an upside–down question mark. That was the moment… I understood. Really understood. Crisis, change, all the myriad upheavals that blister the spirit and leave us groping– they aren’t voices simply of pain but also of creativity. And if we would only listen, we might hear such times beckoning us to a season of waiting, to the place of fertile emptiness. When the Heart Waits

Suffering and Crisis

I don’t hold to the idea that God causes suffering and crisis. I just know that those things come along and God uses them. We think life should be a nice, clean ascending line. But inevitably something wanders onto the scene and creates havoc with the nice way we’ve arranged life to fall in place. When the Heart Waits

The Clamor of a New Self Struggling to be Born

Back in the autumn I had awakened to a growing darkness and cacophony, as if something in the depths were crying out. A whole chorus of voices. Orphaned voices. They seemed to speak for all the unlived parts of me, and they came with a force and dazzle that I couldn’t contain. They seemed to explode the boundaries of my existence. I know now that they were the clamor of a new self struggling to be born. When the Heart Waits

Galway Kinnell

After Making Love We Hear Footsteps

For I can snore like a bullhorn
or play loud music
or sit up talking with any reasonably sober Irishman
and Fergus will only sink deeper
into his dreamless sleep, which goes by all in one flash,
but let there be that heavy breathing
or a stifled come-cry anywhere in the house
and he will wrench himself awake
and make for it on the run – as now, we lie together,
after making love, quiet, touching along the length of our bodies,
familiar touch of the long-married,
and he appears – in his baseball pajamas, it happens,
the neck opening so small
he has to screw them on, which one day may make him wonder
about the mental capacity of baseball players -
and flops down between us and hugs us and snuggles himself to sleep,
his face gleaming with satisfaction at being this very child.

In the half darkness we look at each other
and smile
and touch arms across his little, startling muscled body -
this one whom habit of memory propels to the ground of his making,
sleeper only the mortal sounds can sing awake,
this blessing love gives again into our arms.

St. Francis and the Sow
The bud
stands for all things,
even for those things that don’t flower,
for everything flowers, from within, of self-blessing;
though sometimes it is necessary
to reteach a thing its loveliness,
to put a hand on its brow
of the flower
and retell it in words and in touch
it is lovely
until it flowers again from within, of self-blessing;
as Saint Francis
put his hand on the creased forehead
of the sow, and told her in words and in touch
blessings of earth on the sow, and the sow
began remembering all down her thick length,
from the earthen snout all the way
through the fodder and slops to the spiritual curl of the tail,
from the hard spininess spiked out from the spine
down through the great broken heart
to the sheer blue milken dreaminess spurting and shuddering
from the fourteen teats into the fourteen mouths sucking and blowing beneath them:
the long, perfect loveliness of sow.

L

C.S Lewis

Faith

Faith is the art of holding on to things your reason has once accepted in spite of your changing moods.

Denise Levertov

Wonder

Every day, every day I hear enough to fill a year of nights with wondering.

Life Itself is so Astounding
Why, when the very fact of life itself, of the existence of anything at all, is so astounding, why — I asked myself — should I withhold my belief in God or in the claims of Christianity until I am able to explain to myself the discrepancy between the suffering of the innocent, on the one hand, and the assertions that God is just and merciful on the other?

M

Thomas Merton

Deepen Your Own Self-Understanding

If you attempt to act and do for others or for the world without deepening your own self-understanding, freedom, integrity and capacity to love, you will not have anything to give others.

Sacred Reading

By reading the scriptures I am so renewed that all nature seems renewed around me and with me. The sky seems to be a pure, a cooler blue, the trees a deeper green. The whole world is charged with the glory of God and I feel fire and music under my feet.

N

Henri Nouwen

Living Your Wounds

The great challenge is living your wounds through instead of thinking them through. It is better to cry than to worry, better to feel your wounds deeply than to understand them, better to let them enter into your silence than to talk about them. Understanding your wounds can only be healing when that understanding is put at the service of your heart.

God’s Love is Enough

You have to trust the place that is solid, the place where you can say yes to God’s love even when you do not feel it. Right now you feel nothing except emptiness and the lack of strength to choose. But keep saying, ‘God loves me, and God’s love is enough’. You have to choose the solid place over and over again and return to it after every failure.

Spiritual Discipline

In the spiritual life, the word ‘discipline’ means ‘the effort to create some space in which God can act’. Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you’re not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied… to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn’t planned or counted on.

O

John O’Donohue

Envy

No one else has access to the world you carry around within yourself; you are its custodian and entrance. No one else can see the world the way you see it. No one else can feel your life the way you feel it. Thus it is impossible to ever compare two people because each stands on such different ground. When you compare yourself to others, you are inviting envy into your consciousness; it can be a dangerous and destructive guest. Anam Cara

The Awakened Soul

Once the soul awakens, the search begins and you can never go back. From then on, you are inflamed with a special longing that will never again let you linger in the lowlands of complacency and partial fulfillment. The eternal makes you urgent. You are loath to let compromise or the threat of danger hold you back from striving toward the summit of fulfillment. Anam Cara

Sharon Olds

After Making Love in Winter

At first I cannot have even a sheet on me,
anything at all is painful, a plate of
iron laid down on my nerves, I lie there in the
air as if flying rapidly without moving, and
slowly I cool off.-hot,
warm, cool, cold, icy, till the
skin all over my body is ice
except at those points our bodies touch like
blooms of fire. Around the door
loose in its frame, and around the transom, the
light from the hall burns in straight lines and
casts up narrow beams on the ceiling, a
figure throwing up its arms for joy.
In the mirror, the angles of the room are calm, it is the
hour when you can see that the angle itself is blessed,
and the dark globes of the chandelier,
suspended in the mirror, are motionless-I can
feel my ovaries deep in my body, I
gaze at the silvery bulbs, maybe I am
looking at my ovaries, it is
clear everything I look at is real
and good. We have come to the end of questions,
you run your palm, warm, large,
dry, back along my face over and
over, over and over, like God
putting the finishing touches on, before
sending me down to be born.

Mary Oliver

Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
call to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting –
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

The World Calls

And that is just the point… how the world, moist and beautiful, calls to each of us to make a new and serious response. That’s the big question, the one the world throws at you every morning. “Here you are, alive. Would you like to make a comment?”

P

Christine Valters Paintner

Border Spaces

Living on the edge means recognizing those places and experiences that do not offer me easy answers, those fierce edges of life where things are not as clear-cut as I hope for them to be. There is beauty in the border spaces, those places of ambiguity and mystery.

Don Postema

What Deep People Need

Deep people know they need:
solitude-if they are going to find out who they are;
silence-if their words are to mean anything;
contemplation-if they are to see the world as it really is;
prayer-if they are going to be conscious of God,
and if they are to ‘know God and enjoy him forever.’ Space for God

Helen Prejean

R

Rachel Naomi Remen

Serving People Perfectly

Wounding and healing are not opposites. They’re part of the same thing. It is our wounds that enable us to be compassionate with the wounds of others. It is our limitations that make us kind to the limitations of other people. It is our loneliness that helps us to to find other people or to even know they’re alone with an illness. I think I have served people perfectly with parts of myself I used to be ashamed of.

Choose Life Again

Every great loss demands that we choose life again. We need to grieve in order to do this. The pain we have not grieved over will always stand between us and life. When we don’t grieve, a part of us becomes caught in the past like Lot’s wife who, because she looked back, was turned into a pillar of salt.

Everybody is a Story

Everybody is a story. When I was a child, people sat around kitchen tables and told their stories. We don’t do that so much anymore. Sitting around the table telling stories is not just a way of passing time. It is the way the wisdom gets passed along. The stuff that helps us to live a life worth remembering.

Rainer Maria Rilke (1862-1937)

Live the Questions

Be patient toward all that is unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves…. Do not now seek answers which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now.

Archbishop Oscar Romero

Aspire to Be More

Aspire not to have more but to be more.Defence of human rights, equality and freedom is a matte of policy rooted in the gospel.Beautiful is the moment in which we understand that we are no more than an instrument of God; we live only as long as God wants us to live; we can only do as much as God makes us able to do; we are only as intelligent as God would have us be.If we are worth anything, it is not because we have more money or more talent or more human qualities. Insofar as we are worth anything, it is because we are grafted on to Christ’s life, his cross and resurrection. That is a person’s measure.We accomplish in our lifetime only a tiny fraction of the magnificent enterprise that is God’s work.  Nothing we do is complete, which is a way of saying that the kingdom always lies beyond us.  No statement says all that could be said.  No prayer fully expresses our faith.  No confession brings perfection.  No pastoral visit brings wholeness. No program accomplishes the church’s mission.  No set of goals and obvjectives includes everything.This is what we are about.  We plant the seeds that one day will grow.  We water seeds already planted, knowing that they hold future promise.  We lay foundations that will need further development.  We provide yeast that produces far beyond our capabilities.  we cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation in realizing that.  this enables us to do something, and to do it very well.  It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way, an opportunity for the Lord’s grace to enter and do the rest.  We may never see the end results, but that is the difference between the master builder and the worker.  We are the workers, not master builders;  ministers, not messiahs.

S

Cathy Smith Bowers

Learning How to Pray

When I heard my brother
was dying     youngest
of the six of us     our
lovely boy     I who in matters
of the spirit
had been always suspect
who even as a child
snubbed Mama’s
mealtime ritual
began finally to
pray     and fearing
I would offend
or miss completely
the rightful target of my pleas
went knocking everywhere
the Buddha’s huge
and starry churning     Shiva
Vishnu     Isis     the worn
and ragged god of Ishmael
I bowed to the Druid reverence
of trees     to water     fire
and wind     prayed to weather
to carbon     that sole link
to all things
this and other worldly
our carbon who art in heaven
prayed to rake and plow
the sweet acid stench of dung
to fly     to the fly’s soiled
wing     and to the soil

I could not stop
myself     I like a nymphomaniac
the dark promiscuity
of my spirit     there
for the taking     whore
of my breaking heart     willing
to lie down     with anything.

David Stendahl-Rast, OSB

People Who Have Faith

People who have faith in life are like swimmers who entrust themselves to a rushing river. They neither abandon themselves to its current nor try to resist it. Rather, they adjust their every movement to the watercourse, use it with purpose and skill, and enjoy the adventure.

Transforming the World

Monastic contemplatives have staked out a clearly limited area to be transformed by contemplation: the monastery. Lay contemplatives face the challenge of transforming the whole world.

T

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1862-1955)

You are a Spiritual Being

You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being immersed in a human experience.

For Those of Us Who Have a Large Vision

There is almost a sensual longing for communion with others who have a large vision. The immense fulfillment of the friendship between those engaged in furthering the evolution of consciousness has a quality impossible to describe.

Mark Twain

Small People
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.

U

Evelyn Underhill

The Sacrament of the Present Moment
God is always coming to you in the Sacrament of the Present Moment. Meet and receive him there with gratitude in that sacrament.

W

Simone Weil

Justice

Justice. To be ever ready to admit that another person is something quite different from what we read when he is there (or when we think about him). Or rather, to read in him that he is certainly something different, perhaps something completely different from what we read in him. Every being cries out silently to be read differently.

Grace

All the natural movements of the soul are controlled by laws analogous to those of physical gravity. Grace is the only exception. Grace fills empty spaces, but it can only enter where there is a void to receive it, and it is grace itself which makes this void. The imagination is continually at work filling up all the fissures through which grace might pass.

Y

Philip Yancy

Prayer

When I pray for another person, I am praying for God to open my eyes so that I can see that person as God does, and then enter into the stream of love that God already directs toward that person.

If prayer stands as the place where God and human beings meet, then I must learn about prayer. Most of my struggles in the Christian life circle around the same two themes: why God doesn’t act the way we want God to, and why I don’t act the way God wants me to. Prayer is the precise point where those themes converge.

 

 

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Our Featured Mystic

Our current featured mystic is Fr. Anthony DeMello (known to all as Tony). A Jesuit priest and psychotherapist, DeMello was the director of the Sadhana Institute of Pastoral Counseling near Poona, India, until his death in 1987. His writings appeal to a wide audience - persons of all faiths and those seeking to live life authentically and abundantly. His life's work may be summed up as follows: he aimed simply to teach people HOW TO PRAY, how to WAKE UP AND LIVE. As a culture and a people, we are in desperate need to wake up and live our lives authentically and with integrity.

"Most people, he maintained, are asleep. They need to wake up, open up their eyes, see what is real, both inside and outside of themselves. The greatest human gift is to be aware, to be in touch with oneself, one's body, mind, feelings, thoughts, sensations.

Here are some of his typical challenges: "Come home yourself!
Come back to your senses! Do you hear that bird sing?
How can you hear the song and not hear the singer?
How can you see the wave and not see the ocean?
How can you see the dance and not see the dancer?'"
~ quote from www.demello.org

Check out Fr. DeMello's writings, and be inspired to wake up to your mystery and discover your unique path.

All Paths Lead to God

"All paths lead to God." ~ Meister Eckhart

"Humans often argue, even go to war, over whose path to God is correct. But Eckhart says: Slow down. Breathe. Don't judge. You take your path, and let others take their path. They will all lead to God. What, though, carries us beyond tribalism, beyond egocentricity, which creates those competitive, restrictive "My God is better than your God" conflicts? Eckhart says "transformed knowledge." Transformed knowledge comes with meditation, with learning to let go and let be. We must do some inner work to rid ourselves of outer teaching that preach division and exclusion and competition." ~ Fr. Matthew Fox, Christian Mystics

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